Childfree Connection

Childfree dating in Los Angeles

Childfree singles in Los Angeles, from the beach to the valley.

California is home to more Childfree Connection members than any other state, and Los Angeles is our biggest metro area. Everyone here has already decided against kids, which in a city this spread out saves you a lot of drives that go nowhere.

Free to join and use. Adults only (18+). Now in Open Beta, open to everyone.

  • 1,200+members in DiscoverPeople who appear in Discover, October 2026.
  • 52%of members are womenOf members who state a gender, October 2026.
  • 34median ageOf members who share their age, October 2026.
  • 68%are 25 to 39Of members who share their age, October 2026.

Why LA

Our largest state, our largest metro.

Los Angeles is where Childfree Connection has the most members of any US metro, and California leads every state. That density is what makes a niche dating app work: Discover sorts by distance, so Santa Monica, Silver Lake, Long Beach, Pasadena and the Valley are all in reach, and you can keep the radius tight or stretch it to San Diego and Orange County.

Members pick Romance, Friendship or Both and send Connects with a personal note. 52% of members are women and the median age is 34, so this is not the usual lopsided app.

  • 52% women, 46% men. Of members who state a gender, October 2026.
  • 68% of members are between 25 and 39. Of members who share their age, October 2026.
  • Top shared interests: reading, gaming, movies, international travel, pets, board games.
  • Any member can host a meetup, a hike, a game night or an online mixer. LA has a childfree social scene outside the app too; this is the place to find people for it.

Beyond dating

Childfree friends in a city where everyone's busy.

Switch Discover to Friendship to meet childfree friends near you, then take it to a group: there are 36, for travel, books, gaming, hiking, pets and more. When your friends from college are deep in school pickups, this is where Saturday plans can start.

How it works

Three steps, no swiping.

  1. Join free

    Create your profile on the web or in the app: photos, prompts, interests and the Essentials that matter to childfree life. Everything you need is free.

  2. Choose romance, friendship or both

    Discover shows childfree people near you in LA and Southern California, or anywhere, in the mode you pick. Filter by distance, age and lifestyle, or open it up to the whole world.

  3. Send a Connect

    A Connect is a personal note, not a swipe. When it is returned you can message, call and meet. Groups and events are there whenever you want more than one-to-one.

Who's here

Real numbers, with their base.

Aggregates only, from our own data, October 2026. We never show a member's profile in marketing.

  • 52%women46% men, 2% non-binary. Of members who state a gender, October 2026.
  • 34median age68% are 25 to 39. Of members who share their age, October 2026.
  • about 85countriesNearly half of members live outside the US. Members with that country on their profile, October 2026.
  • about 120new members a monthAccounts created each month, January to September 2026; the record is 210 in July.
  • 36interest groupsThe largest has 100+ members. October 2026.
  • 62%sterilized or planning to beOf members who answered the sterilization question, October 2026.

Top shared interests: reading, gaming, movies, international travel, pets, board games, cooking, hiking. Two thirds of members who share it have pets or want them.

From the founder

I built Childfree Connection to help take the stigma out of being childfree. It's a valid choice, and the people who make it deserve to find each other, whether that's a partner, friends or both, wherever they live. On mainstream apps, "I don't want kids" ends a lot of conversations; here it's where they start. We started in the US, and members have now joined from about 85 countries. To me that shows childfree life isn't an American trend. It's worldwide, and it isn't going anywhere.

Bill, founder of Childfree Connection

Questions

Good questions.

How many childfree singles are in Los Angeles on the app?

Los Angeles is Childfree Connection's largest metro area and California its largest state. We publish our totals (1,200+ members in Discover) rather than city counts, which change daily; set your location and Discover shows you exactly who is within your radius.

Is it only for dating?

No. Pick Romance, Friendship or Both in Discover. About two thirds of members browse for romance, and groups, events and video mixers are open to everyone.

Is it free?

Yes. Childfree Connection is free to join and use: your profile, Discover, Connects, messages, groups and events. Optional memberships add extras.

Can I see people outside LA?

Yes. Set your Discover radius to Southern California, the whole state or the world. Nearly half of members live outside the US, and many are open to long distance.

Which apps are there?

The web app works in any browser, and there are apps for Android (Google Play), iPhone (TestFlight beta) and Windows. One account works everywhere.

Free to join and use.

Your profile, Discover, Connects, messages, groups and events are free. Optional memberships add extras.